Indahraira

You see nothing, but honesty..
~ Dienstag, September 9 ~
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Adab Terhadap Saudara Kandung

Ada orangtua datang ingin menemui Nabi saw. dan orang-orang yang ada di dalam majelis tidak segera melapangkan tempat untuk memberikan jalan kepada orangtua tersebut. Kemudian Nabi saw. bersabda:

لَيْسَ مِنَّا مَنْ لَمْ يُوَقِّرْ الْكَبِيرَ وَيَرْحَمْ الصَّغِيرَ

Tidaklah termasuk golonganku orang yang tidak menghormati yang lebih tua dan tidak menyayangi yang muda (HR Imam Ahmad dan ath-Thabrani).

Ada juga hadis dari Kulaib al-Juhani ra. bahwa Rasulullah saw. pernah bersabda, “Saudara tua adalah orang yang menempati posisi orangtua.” (HR ath-Thabari).

Dua hadis tersebut menunjukkan bahwa kakak haknya dihormati sehingga kewajiban adik adalah menghormati kakak. Sebaliknya, hak adik adalah disayangi sehingga kakak berkewajiban untuk menjaga dan menyayangi adik.


~ Mittwoch, August 20 ~
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How I Feel About My LDR

"I love my long-distance relationship because it provides me the space to work on myself. Oftentimes, couples leave college and try to continue dating, which I think is often a mistake.

Of course, there are plenty of relationships that work out and go on to become happy marriages. In other cases, however, both people end up suffering. If you never learn how to be on your own, you’ll continue to be dependent on others.

I don’t have somebody to hug me when I’m having a bad day. My boyfriend can’t meet with me during my lunch break when I don’t want to eat alone.

I’m also facing all of the hardships that young adults face all by myself. I’m learning how to survive, take care of myself and to be independent, which is vital, in my opinion.

Yet, although I might be on my own, I’m never actually alone. Sure, my boyfriend can’t physically comfort me or take me out on dates, but he’s never more than a quick text message away.

While I value my time alone, I’ve never been more grateful for my boyfriend’s virtual presence; he’s my safety net and my outlet after a trying day.

Your 20s are a time of self-discovery, not continued dependence. However, having somebody there for you, even just occasionally, makes everything easier. A long-distance relationship provides just that: a chance to be on your own without ever having to feel alone.

One of the most common questions people ask me about my relationship is about my prospects for the future. They ask about where we’ll end up; they want to know our plan.

My answer is that I don’t yet know. However, there is one thing I do know: I couldn’t have asked for a better person to stand by my side as I go through the motions of young adulthood… even if he is 3,000 miles away.” - Linda Tell

This is definitely true. I really appreciate my long distance relationship :) Even this is not my writings, but this really how I feel and think about my long distance relationship.


~ Freitag, Juli 11 ~
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oriental-sunrise:

This illustration appeared in one of the american magazines in 1994, 7 years before World Trade Center attacks. 

oriental-sunrise:

This illustration appeared in one of the american magazines in 1994, 7 years before World Trade Center attacks. 


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oh—lord-heaven-knows:

Yeppp | via Facebook auf We Heart It - http://weheartit.com/entry/118351362

oh—lord-heaven-knows:

Yeppp | via Facebook auf We Heart It - http://weheartit.com/entry/118351362


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Yaa begitu..

Yaa begitu..


~ Donnerstag, Juni 19 ~
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It’s fantastic!

(Quelle: youtube.com)


~ Montag, Juni 9 ~
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